often, being with an avoidant partner feels impersonal... even if you're married with kids! this panic at not being able to connect amplifies your preoccupied attachment behaviors and then things devolve into a pursuer distancer dynamic. therapy can help!! #psychologist #therapist #marriage #love #intimacy #coaching #men #women | Dr. Psych Mom

9 things that can make a wedding ceremony, feel cold and impersonal👇🏻 1. ❌ Generic or Scripted Vows – When couples stick to cookie-cutter wording without adding personal touches, it can feel like anyone’s ceremony—not their love story. 🪑 Too Much Distance Between Guests and the Couple – Large gaps between the seating and the altar or overly spread-out layouts can make guests feel disconnected from the moment. 🗣️ An Officiant Who Doesn’t Know the Couple – Having someone who reads a standard s