Dear Abby hears out a woman who is torn between her friend group after hearing rumors about her male friend making inappropriate advances to the women in the group.

They've all been friends for many years. Should he tell the wife what he knows and has heard about her husband?

Dear Abby: I have a friend, “Doug,” I’ve known for 30 years. I moved away, but we get together once or twice a year. I’ve known his wife longer than him and watched their son grow up, attending his sports activities when visiting and contributing to school fundraising activities. He’s a good kid.

"I’m sad that she doesn’t seem to want to stay connected, but it’s painful to keep reaching out and getting so little back."

Dear Abby advises a woman who doesn't know if she should give up on a friendship because her friend barely reaches out to her.