Deflecting is a great skill to show off when playing defense in basketball or football. However, it can pose problems in relationships, as deflecting is considered a defense mechanism in psychology.

Pointing a finger at the other is a curious and persistent defense mechanism for the guilty. We try to teach our kids not to tattle, but also to be true to themselves. But sometimes the tattling is a ...

Dr. Stratyner says that steering the conversation away from the topic is an often-used tactic to avoid discussing it. How to respond: She suggests asking yourself two key questions: Does the topic ...